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pmwww | | Re: Significant Other (31st Dec 07 at 8:25pm UTC) | | Well, I thought I had met my significant other...we were in love for about 4 years...then yesterday, out of nowhere she tells me she wants nothing to do with me.   wazeefux? ask her why or anything? wait 4 years... u dated since u were 11? Since grade 7...she said she couldn't keep "living a lie". That happened to me recently. Although it wasn't 4 years.. it was more like 9 months. But still, I gave her my heart in full trust, then she rips it apart and hands it back saying 'I don't love you, and I only told you that because I couldn't see you get hurt.' Yeah, that didn't hurt..
So messed up, though...cause we went to a movie on Friday, and everything was great, made out the whole time as usual, she kept telling me she loved me, etc...next day she calls and tells me she can't keep living a lie, and wants nothing to do with me. | |
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pmmsnyahooaim | | Re: Significant Other (31st Dec 07 at 8:25pm UTC) | | Well, I thought I had met my significant other...we were in love for about 4 years...then yesterday, out of nowhere she tells me she wants nothing to do with me. wazeefux? ask her why or anything? wait 4 years... u dated since u were 11? Since grade 7...she said she couldn't keep "living a lie". That happened to me recently. Although it wasn't 4 years.. it was more like 9 months. But still, I gave her my heart in full trust, then she rips it apart and hands it back saying 'I don't love you, and I only told you that because I couldn't see you get hurt.' Yeah, that didn't hurt..
God... Please don't let that happen to me.. i am sorry it happened to you guys.. >__<... living a lie.. wtfx.. | |
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pmwww | | Re: Significant Other (31st Dec 07 at 8:26pm UTC) | | Well, I thought I had met my significant other...we were in love for about 4 years...then yesterday, out of nowhere she tells me she wants nothing to do with me. wazeefux? ask her why or anything? wait 4 years... u dated since u were 11? Since grade 7...she said she couldn't keep "living a lie".
That's really out of order. You deserve at the very least an explanation | |
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pmwww | | Re: Significant Other (31st Dec 07 at 8:27pm UTC) | | | I dunno, after she called I just went outside and wandered around the city for a few hours [was -10, I was in a t-shirt] thinking...just been trying not to think about it for now, I guess. | |
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pmmsnyahooaim | | Re: Significant Other (31st Dec 07 at 8:27pm UTC) | | Well, I thought I had met my significant other...we were in love for about 4 years...then yesterday, out of nowhere she tells me she wants nothing to do with me. wazeefux? ask her why or anything? wait 4 years... u dated since u were 11? Since grade 7...she said she couldn't keep "living a lie". That's really out of order. You deserve at the very least an explanation
yeah and a longer one than that
I kinda hold my girl in my grasp cause she's afraid I'll leave her, but I never wanna leave her.. no one is as good as mine... | |
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pmskypemsnyahoo | | Re: Significant Other (6th Jan 08 at 12:37pm UTC) | | | I haven't dated much for a while since my last relationship. Some people found it funny how I broke up with my other. I left a note on their door. xD | |
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pmwww | | Re: Significant Other (6th Jan 08 at 1:01pm UTC) | | I haven't dated much for a while since my last relationship. Some people found it funny how I broke up with my other. I left a note on their door. xD
Seriously? She didn't even warrant an explanation face to face, or over the phone? | |
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pmskypemsnyahoo | | Re: Significant Other (6th Jan 08 at 1:03pm UTC) | | I haven't dated much for a while since my last relationship. Some people found it funny how I broke up with my other. I left a note on their door. xD Seriously? She didn't even warrant an explanation face to face, or over the phone? | |
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pmwww | | Re: Significant Other (6th Jan 08 at 2:01pm UTC) | | | See, i think that every relationship needs communication and not giving a fair explanation even after a break up shows a lack of respect | |
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pmvForum | | Re: Significant Other (6th Jan 08 at 2:06pm UTC) | | See, i think that every relationship needs communication and not giving a fair explanation even after a break up shows a lack of respect
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pmskypemsnyahoo | | Re: Significant Other (6th Jan 08 at 2:17pm UTC) | | Everything my mate needed to know was on the note I left them. My other:
+ Cheated
+ Smoked (said they didn't smoke)
+ Lied
+ Stole (money, etc)
+ Bashed my beleifs. (I'm Atheist will always be, and if I want to talk to a friend in Iran, I will. I ain't changing that for anyone. Aint' losing a friend became my mate told me to. And my religion...is my religion) | |
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pmmsnyahooaim | | Re: Significant Other (6th Jan 08 at 2:22pm UTC) | | Everything my mate needed to know was on the note I left them. My other:
+ Cheated
+ Smoked (said they didn't smoke)
+ Lied
+ Stole (money, etc)
+ Bashed my beleifs. (I'm Atheist will always be, and if I want to talk to a friend in Iran, I will. I ain't changing that for anyone. Aint' losing a friend became my mate told me to. And my religion...is my religion)
Fair. | |
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pmwww | | Re: Significant Other (6th Jan 08 at 2:44pm UTC) | | Everything my mate needed to know was on the note I left them. My other:
+ Cheated
+ Smoked (said they didn't smoke)
+ Lied
+ Stole (money, etc)
+ Bashed my beleifs. (I'm Atheist will always be, and if I want to talk to a friend in Iran, I will. I ain't changing that for anyone. Aint' losing a friend became my mate told me to. And my religion...is my religion)
Did you speak to her about these issues? | |
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pmwwwmsngtalk | | Re: Significant Other (6th Jan 08 at 3:01pm UTC) | | | I still think at my age there isn't any point in really dating since the chances of making it through the rest of the year, then highschool, then college and living a life are probably as good as being struck by lightning. | |
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pmwww | | Re: Significant Other (6th Jan 08 at 3:14pm UTC) | | I still think at my age there isn't any point in really dating since the chances of making it through the rest of the year, then highschool, then college and living a life are probably as good as being struck by lightning.
If you're willing to make it work and your partner is, then it can. My girlfriend and i have been together for just over 2 1/2 years and most of that time he has been at University 250 miles away. It's all down to dedication, will and love  | |
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