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Significant Other - Posted By XeroCint (kai) on 31st Dec 07 at 7:19pm
not ONLY is it a great CD ->> Googled


But also a great topic! Who is your significant other?

Re: Significant Other - Posted By [ SkaterFly ] (SkaterFly) on 31st Dec 07 at 7:20pm
Meh....noone....and im not even gonna go into the story of how every girl wants me >.>

Re: Significant Other - Posted By Parker (parker) on 31st Dec 07 at 7:21pm
I will proberly pick one up tonight as i stumble home {Cheesy}

Re: Significant Other - Posted By XeroCint (kai) on 31st Dec 07 at 7:24pm
My girl = epic. Insane, hilarious, beautiful, all words that describe her. I wanna truly be in love with this girl forever. I know I am (nearly) 15, but I think that if someone can last through high school with a girl then you can last forever. And if someone actually means their love then they will stay together forever.

Heather has decided she wants to wait to have a kid till mid 20s, cause that way she can have fun and the works. People are actually talking about having kids in high school. ON PURPOSE. just stupid IMO.

Oh reminds me. We already have a name for our kid, Ian Michael. I so got dibs, and if you steal it, you owe me by naming your kid afterward Kai. Why did IMO remind me of Ian Michael? that's his initials!

Re: Significant Other - Posted By [ SkaterFly ] (SkaterFly) on 31st Dec 07 at 7:26pm
haha....IMO...nice idea {Tongue Out}

Re: Significant Other - Posted By Marc (cr0w) on 31st Dec 07 at 7:28pm
Well, I thought I had met my significant other...we were in love for about 4 years...then yesterday, out of nowhere she tells me she wants nothing to do with me. {Unsure} {Sad}

Re: Significant Other - Posted By Graham (amusedtodeath) on 31st Dec 07 at 7:32pm
Significant Other was awful {Tongue Out}

I've been with my girlfriend for just over 2 1/2 years. She's like my carer, just with less pay {Tongue Out} We've had our ups and downs but we're pretty solid {Smile}

Re: Significant Other - Posted By Grave (Grave) on 31st Dec 07 at 7:34pm
Alone in the world, I am. D:

Re: Significant Other - Posted By Michael (wrighty) on 31st Dec 07 at 7:35pm
 
Alone in the world, I am. D:



Same... {Sad}

Re: Significant Other - Posted By XeroCint (kai) on 31st Dec 07 at 7:59pm
 
 
Alone in the world, I am. D:



Same... {Sad}


aw wrighty, you gots me {Cheesy}

Re: Significant Other - Posted By Kronus (kronus) on 31st Dec 07 at 8:19pm
 
 
Alone in the world, I am. D:



Same... {Sad}


Same here... {Unsure}

Re: Significant Other - Posted By XeroCint (kai) on 31st Dec 07 at 8:20pm
 
Well, I thought I had met my significant other...we were in love for about 4 years...then yesterday, out of nowhere she tells me she wants nothing to do with me. {Unsure} {Sad}


wazeefux? ask her why or anything?
wait 4 years... u dated since u were 11?

 
Significant Other was awful {Tongue Out}


meh i liked it *listens*

Re: Significant Other - Posted By Marc (cr0w) on 31st Dec 07 at 8:22pm
 
 
Well, I thought I had met my significant other...we were in love for about 4 years...then yesterday, out of nowhere she tells me she wants nothing to do with me. {Unsure} {Sad}


wazeefux? ask her why or anything?
wait 4 years... u dated since u were 11?


Since grade 7...she said she couldn't keep "living a lie". {Unsure}

Re: Significant Other - Posted By Kronus (kronus) on 31st Dec 07 at 8:24pm
 
 
 
Well, I thought I had met my significant other...we were in love for about 4 years...then yesterday, out of nowhere she tells me she wants nothing to do with me. {Unsure} {Sad}


wazeefux? ask her why or anything?
wait 4 years... u dated since u were 11?


Since grade 7...she said she couldn't keep "living a lie". {Unsure}


That happened to me recently. Although it wasn't 4 years.. it was more like 9 months. But still, I gave her my heart in full trust, then she rips it apart and hands it back saying 'I don't love you, and I only told you that because I couldn't see you get hurt.' Yeah, that didn't hurt.. {Unsure}

Re: Significant Other - Posted By Virtualize (virtualize) on 31st Dec 07 at 8:24pm
 
 
 
Alone in the world, I am. D:



Same... {Sad}


Same here... {Unsure}


Same same same here. {Tongue Out}

Re: Significant Other - Posted By Marc (cr0w) on 31st Dec 07 at 8:25pm
 
 
 
 
Well, I thought I had met my significant other...we were in love for about 4 years...then yesterday, out of nowhere she tells me she wants nothing to do with me. {Unsure} {Sad}


wazeefux? ask her why or anything?
wait 4 years... u dated since u were 11?


Since grade 7...she said she couldn't keep "living a lie". {Unsure}


That happened to me recently. Although it wasn't 4 years.. it was more like 9 months. But still, I gave her my heart in full trust, then she rips it apart and hands it back saying 'I don't love you, and I only told you that because I couldn't see you get hurt.' Yeah, that didn't hurt.. {Unsure}


So messed up, though...cause we went to a movie on Friday, and everything was great, made out the whole time as usual, she kept telling me she loved me, etc...next day she calls and tells me she can't keep living a lie, and wants nothing to do with me. {Unsure}

Re: Significant Other - Posted By XeroCint (kai) on 31st Dec 07 at 8:25pm
 
 
 
 
Well, I thought I had met my significant other...we were in love for about 4 years...then yesterday, out of nowhere she tells me she wants nothing to do with me. {Unsure} {Sad}


wazeefux? ask her why or anything?
wait 4 years... u dated since u were 11?


Since grade 7...she said she couldn't keep "living a lie". {Unsure}


That happened to me recently. Although it wasn't 4 years.. it was more like 9 months. But still, I gave her my heart in full trust, then she rips it apart and hands it back saying 'I don't love you, and I only told you that because I couldn't see you get hurt.' Yeah, that didn't hurt.. {Unsure}



God... Please don't let that happen to me.. i am sorry it happened to you guys.. >__<... living a lie.. wtfx..

Re: Significant Other - Posted By Graham (amusedtodeath) on 31st Dec 07 at 8:26pm
 
 
 
Well, I thought I had met my significant other...we were in love for about 4 years...then yesterday, out of nowhere she tells me she wants nothing to do with me. {Unsure} {Sad}


wazeefux? ask her why or anything?
wait 4 years... u dated since u were 11?


Since grade 7...she said she couldn't keep "living a lie". {Unsure}


That's really out of order. You deserve at the very least an explanation {Sad}

Re: Significant Other - Posted By Marc (cr0w) on 31st Dec 07 at 8:27pm
I dunno, after she called I just went outside and wandered around the city for a few hours [was -10, I was in a t-shirt] thinking...just been trying not to think about it for now, I guess.

Re: Significant Other - Posted By XeroCint (kai) on 31st Dec 07 at 8:27pm
 
 
 
 
Well, I thought I had met my significant other...we were in love for about 4 years...then yesterday, out of nowhere she tells me she wants nothing to do with me. {Unsure} {Sad}


wazeefux? ask her why or anything?
wait 4 years... u dated since u were 11?


Since grade 7...she said she couldn't keep "living a lie". {Unsure}


That's really out of order. You deserve at the very least an explanation {Sad}

yeah and a longer one than that

I kinda hold my girl in my grasp cause she's afraid I'll leave her, but I never wanna leave her.. no one is as good as mine...

Re: Significant Other - Posted By ashkir (ashkir) on 6th Jan 08 at 12:37pm
I haven't dated much for a while since my last relationship. Some people found it funny how I broke up with my other. I left a note on their door. xD

Re: Significant Other - Posted By Graham (amusedtodeath) on 6th Jan 08 at 1:01pm
 
I haven't dated much for a while since my last relationship. Some people found it funny how I broke up with my other. I left a note on their door. xD


Seriously? She didn't even warrant an explanation face to face, or over the phone? {Unsure}

Re: Significant Other - Posted By ashkir (ashkir) on 6th Jan 08 at 1:03pm
 
 
I haven't dated much for a while since my last relationship. Some people found it funny how I broke up with my other. I left a note on their door. xD


Seriously? She didn't even warrant an explanation face to face, or over the phone? {Unsure}
My other called me and emailed me for days apoligizing. I ended up ingoring it.

Re: Significant Other - Posted By Graham (amusedtodeath) on 6th Jan 08 at 2:01pm
See, i think that every relationship needs communication and not giving a fair explanation even after a break up shows a lack of respect {Unsure}

Re: Significant Other - Posted By Michael (wrighty) on 6th Jan 08 at 2:06pm
 
See, i think that every relationship needs communication and not giving a fair explanation even after a break up shows a lack of respect {Unsure}


Agreed

Re: Significant Other - Posted By ashkir (ashkir) on 6th Jan 08 at 2:17pm
Everything my mate needed to know was on the note I left them. My other:

+ Cheated
+ Smoked (said they didn't smoke)
+ Lied
+ Stole (money, etc)
+ Bashed my beleifs. (I'm Atheist will always be, and if I want to talk to a friend in Iran, I will. I ain't changing that for anyone. Aint' losing a friend became my mate told me to. And my religion...is my religion)

Re: Significant Other - Posted By XeroCint (kai) on 6th Jan 08 at 2:22pm
 
Everything my mate needed to know was on the note I left them. My other:

+ Cheated
+ Smoked (said they didn't smoke)
+ Lied
+ Stole (money, etc)
+ Bashed my beleifs. (I'm Atheist will always be, and if I want to talk to a friend in Iran, I will. I ain't changing that for anyone. Aint' losing a friend became my mate told me to. And my religion...is my religion)



Fair.

Re: Significant Other - Posted By Graham (amusedtodeath) on 6th Jan 08 at 2:44pm
 
Everything my mate needed to know was on the note I left them. My other:

+ Cheated
+ Smoked (said they didn't smoke)
+ Lied
+ Stole (money, etc)
+ Bashed my beleifs. (I'm Atheist will always be, and if I want to talk to a friend in Iran, I will. I ain't changing that for anyone. Aint' losing a friend became my mate told me to. And my religion...is my religion)


Did you speak to her about these issues?

Re: Significant Other - Posted By tricky.cb (crazyblue) on 6th Jan 08 at 3:01pm
I still think at my age there isn't any point in really dating since the chances of making it through the rest of the year, then highschool, then college and living a life are probably as good as being struck by lightning.

Re: Significant Other - Posted By Graham (amusedtodeath) on 6th Jan 08 at 3:14pm
 
I still think at my age there isn't any point in really dating since the chances of making it through the rest of the year, then highschool, then college and living a life are probably as good as being struck by lightning.


If you're willing to make it work and your partner is, then it can. My girlfriend and i have been together for just over 2 1/2 years and most of that time he has been at University 250 miles away. It's all down to dedication, will and love {Smile}

Re: Significant Other - Posted By ashkir (ashkir) on 6th Jan 08 at 3:14pm
Trust me I tried before I did the note. And no it wasn't a her. I don't date women.

Re: Significant Other - Posted By XeroCint (kai) on 6th Jan 08 at 3:15pm
 
Trust me I tried before I did the note. And no it wasn't a her. I don't date women.

Ah... I would hide from Wrighty for now on {Tongue Out}

Re: Significant Other - Posted By Graham (amusedtodeath) on 6th Jan 08 at 3:16pm
 
Trust me I tried before I did the note. And no it wasn't a her. I don't date women.


Fair enough {Smile} As long as you did as much as possible under the circumstances {Smile}

Re: Significant Other - Posted By Michael (wrighty) on 6th Jan 08 at 3:20pm
 
 
Trust me I tried before I did the note. And no it wasn't a her. I don't date women.

Ah... I would hide from Wrighty for now on {Tongue Out}


Shutup... Just cause the guy's gay doesn't mean I'm going to jump on him now!
@ ashkir... I wouldn't have stood for that either... I can't stand smokers! >.< (to date anyway!)

Re: Significant Other - Posted By ashkir (ashkir) on 6th Jan 08 at 3:23pm
It took me years to tell myself I was gay. I'm glad it's out for me, my brothers and most of my friends know. ^_^ It was hard as hell, but I'm glad it's out.

And yes, I did it because I thought it would be a bad influence on me. Why do I want to change my entire personality for one person? No matter how much I like them, that wasn't for me. And smokers...I can stand them, smoke doesn't bother me, but I don't prefer smokers.

I don't care what the outside is. I am in for personality and who they are.

Re: Significant Other - Posted By Michael (wrighty) on 6th Jan 08 at 3:34pm
 
It took me years to tell myself I was gay. I'm glad it's out for me, my brothers and most of my friends know. ^_^ It was hard as hell, but I'm glad it's out.

And yes, I did it because I thought it would be a bad influence on me. Why do I want to change my entire personality for one person? No matter how much I like them, that wasn't for me. And smokers...I can stand them, smoke doesn't bother me, but I don't prefer smokers.

I don't care what the outside is. I am in for personality and who they are.


Well to an extent it's the same for me... I hasn't come out at all to my family or friends! {Unsure}

Re: Significant Other - Posted By XeroCint (kai) on 6th Jan 08 at 3:36pm
 
It took me years to tell myself I was gay. I'm glad it's out for me, my brothers and most of my friends know. ^_^ It was hard as hell, but I'm glad it's out.

someone keeps trying to turn me gay or at least bi, but I really love this girl...
And I think if I had to choose between a girl that a horrible personality and a guy with a good one, i would probably choose the guy


 

I don't care what the outside is. I am in for personality and who they are.


wurd.

Re: Significant Other - Posted By ashkir (ashkir) on 6th Jan 08 at 3:38pm
 
 
It took me years to tell myself I was gay. I'm glad it's out for me, my brothers and most of my friends know. ^_^ It was hard as hell, but I'm glad it's out.

And yes, I did it because I thought it would be a bad influence on me. Why do I want to change my entire personality for one person? No matter how much I like them, that wasn't for me. And smokers...I can stand them, smoke doesn't bother me, but I don't prefer smokers.

I don't care what the outside is. I am in for personality and who they are.


Well to an extent it's the same for me... I hasn't come out at all to my family or friends! {Unsure}
You have no idea how hard it is to. My parents don't know. I know they'd kill me, they still talk all the time how they hate gay people. My brothers found out on thier own. My friends, a few of them pressured me to tell them. A few of them don't know, but most do.

One of my closest friends became my girlfriend just to get my parents off my back. She knows why too. She's just happy she got a free limo ride to the prom with me. XD

Re: Significant Other - Posted By Michael (wrighty) on 6th Jan 08 at 3:40pm
Rofl... that's one way to get them off your back..

Nah, I'm sure people think I'm gay, but I'm bi.. so hmmm... I has to come out at some stage... maybe when I goes to uni (in about 7 months) I'll come out! {Cheesy}

Re: Significant Other - Posted By XeroCint (kai) on 6th Jan 08 at 3:41pm
 
 
 
It took me years to tell myself I was gay. I'm glad it's out for me, my brothers and most of my friends know. ^_^ It was hard as hell, but I'm glad it's out.

And yes, I did it because I thought it would be a bad influence on me. Why do I want to change my entire personality for one person? No matter how much I like them, that wasn't for me. And smokers...I can stand them, smoke doesn't bother me, but I don't prefer smokers.

I don't care what the outside is. I am in for personality and who they are.


Well to an extent it's the same for me... I hasn't come out at all to my family or friends! {Unsure}
You have no idea how hard it is to. My parents don't know. I know they'd kill me, they still talk all the time how they hate gay people. My brothers found out on thier own. My friends, a few of them pressured me to tell them. A few of them don't know, but most do.

One of my closest friends became my girlfriend just to get my parents off my back. She knows why too. She's just happy she got a free limo ride to the prom with me. XD


Hehe, nice. My parents would probably die of hard attack.. I actually technically dated a guy for a day, but we both decided that I was just bi-curious and didn't want an unstable relationship. We are still good friends and all {Cheesy}

Re: Significant Other - Posted By ashkir (ashkir) on 6th Jan 08 at 3:42pm
 
Rofl... that's one way to get them off your back..

Nah, I'm sure people think I'm gay, but I'm bi.. so hmmm... I has to come out at some stage... maybe when I goes to uni (in about 7 months) I'll come out! {Cheesy}
oy! xD. Good way. Just introduce yourself to new people as gay/bi? xD

Re: Significant Other - Posted By Michael (wrighty) on 6th Jan 08 at 3:58pm
Why introduce myself as that? If people ask, then they find out... I'm not going to tell them I am, but I'm not going to stop them knowing! {Tongue Out}

Re: Significant Other - Posted By ashkir (ashkir) on 6th Jan 08 at 3:59pm
xD. So it will be up to their curiousity then? Clever git. =P

Re: Significant Other - Posted By Michael (wrighty) on 6th Jan 08 at 4:01pm
hehe.... I'm smart! {Grin}

Anyway... yeah, if people ask then I'll tell them! {Tongue Out}

Re: Significant Other - Posted By ashkir (ashkir) on 6th Jan 08 at 4:02pm
That works {Tongue Out} Hey Wrighty are you bi?

Re: Significant Other - Posted By Michael (wrighty) on 6th Jan 08 at 4:03pm
Yup! {Grin}

Re: Significant Other - Posted By ashkir (ashkir) on 6th Jan 08 at 4:04pm
Good. Just testing. {Grin}

Re: Significant Other - Posted By XeroCint (kai) on 6th Jan 08 at 4:08pm
 
That works {Tongue Out} Hey Wrighty are you bi?


well how else would they say it {Tongue Out} ?

Re: Significant Other - Posted By ashkir (ashkir) on 6th Jan 08 at 4:09pm
 
 
That works {Tongue Out} Hey Wrighty are you bi?


well how else would they say it {Tongue Out} ?
Like this

/tie Wrighty up
/slap Wrighty
Are you gay?
/slap
Answer me
/slap

Re: Significant Other - Posted By Michael (wrighty) on 6th Jan 08 at 4:11pm
 
 
 
That works {Tongue Out} Hey Wrighty are you bi?


well how else would they say it {Tongue Out} ?
Like this

/tie Wrighty up
/slap Wrighty
Are you gay?
/slap
Answer me
/slap


Too much Wowing! {Tongue Out}

Re: Significant Other - Posted By XeroCint (kai) on 6th Jan 08 at 4:31pm
 
 
 
That works {Tongue Out} Hey Wrighty are you bi?


well how else would they say it {Tongue Out} ?
Like this

/tie Wrighty up
/slap Wrighty
Are you gay?
/slap
Answer me
/slap


XD, literally laughed out loud..

but let's try to get back on topic {Unsure}

Re: Significant Other - Posted By tricky.cb (crazyblue) on 6th Jan 08 at 6:51pm
 
 
I still think at my age there isn't any point in really dating since the chances of making it through the rest of the year, then highschool, then college and living a life are probably as good as being struck by lightning.


If you're willing to make it work and your partner is, then it can. My girlfriend and i have been together for just over 2 1/2 years and most of that time he has been at University 250 miles away. It's all down to dedication, will and love {Smile}


Your not my age though.

Re: Significant Other - Posted By XeroCint (kai) on 6th Jan 08 at 7:10pm
 
 
 
I still think at my age there isn't any point in really dating since the chances of making it through the rest of the year, then highschool, then college and living a life are probably as good as being struck by lightning.


If you're willing to make it work and your partner is, then it can. My girlfriend and i have been together for just over 2 1/2 years and most of that time he has been at University 250 miles away. It's all down to dedication, will and love {Smile}


Your not my age though.


age shouldn't matter

Re: Significant Other - Posted By Graham (amusedtodeath) on 6th Jan 08 at 7:16pm
 
 
 


If you're willing to make it work and your partner is, then it can. My girlfriend and i have been together for just over 2 1/2 years and most of that time he has been at University 250 miles away. It's all down to dedication, will and love {Smile}


Your not my age though.


age shouldn't matter


Very true. At the end of the day, if you care enough then age won't matter.

Re: Significant Other - Posted By Marc (cr0w) on 6th Jan 08 at 7:24pm
 
I still think at my age there isn't any point in really dating since the chances of making it through the rest of the year, then highschool, then college and living a life are probably as good as being struck by lightning.


Quite a few of my friends have been dating since grade 8/9, some are in uni now and still dating, another are engaged, and my two best friends have been dating for the past two years, and plan on getting married shortly after graduation. {Smile}

Re: Significant Other - Posted By XeroCint (kai) on 6th Jan 08 at 8:17pm
 
 
I still think at my age there isn't any point in really dating since the chances of making it through the rest of the year, then highschool, then college and living a life are probably as good as being struck by lightning.


Quite a few of my friends have been dating since grade 8/9, some are in uni now and still dating, another are engaged, and my two best friends have been dating for the past two years, and plan on getting married shortly after graduation. {Smile}


Just make sure that you really understand what is going on, go find yourself basically. I had been dating this one girl on and off and it was horrible because I didn't really get what I was doing or who I was. Just be sure you know who you are and what you want in a person. My girl and I really want to be together forever, etc.
Also, if you can't make it through 4 years of high school and then a few months apart (seeing as you see each other every now and again) then you definitely don't love each other

Re: Significant Other - Posted By tricky.cb (crazyblue) on 6th Jan 08 at 9:44pm
 
 
I still think at my age there isn't any point in really dating since the chances of making it through the rest of the year, then highschool, then college and living a life are probably as good as being struck by lightning.


Quite a few of my friends have been dating since grade 8/9, some are in uni now and still dating, another are engaged, and my two best friends have been dating for the past two years, and plan on getting married shortly after graduation. {Smile}


I knew a couple kids that were planning that too, something happened over summer break and they never want to speak again.

Re: Significant Other - Posted By XeroCint (kai) on 7th Jan 08 at 1:55am
 
 
 
I still think at my age there isn't any point in really dating since the chances of making it through the rest of the year, then highschool, then college and living a life are probably as good as being struck by lightning.


Quite a few of my friends have been dating since grade 8/9, some are in uni now and still dating, another are engaged, and my two best friends have been dating for the past two years, and plan on getting married shortly after graduation. {Smile}


I knew a couple kids that were planning that too, something happened over summer break and they never want to speak again.



summer break... gah... let's not go there.. stuff does happen {Tongue Out}

Re: Significant Other - Posted By Arucard (alucard) on 7th Jan 08 at 2:03am
 
Alone in the world, I am. D:


Same here {Sad}

Had one for almost 2yrs. Found something out and i kick her ass out!