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Making up with a friend. (9th Aug 08 at 10:05am UTC)
I kind of made a friend mad by having a bad reaction to an obsession I have, kind of the only thing I'm selfish about. How hard is it to make up with a female friend on that issue? Before anyone asks, no I did not hit her. xD. I don't resort to violence.
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Re: Making up with a friend. (9th Aug 08 at 10:41am UTC)
Sometimes it's difficult, but if she is that good a friend to you then she'll understand you. Just take her to one side and say "look, i know i reacted badly to [insert badness here] but it is something that i have a problem with. I'm sorry i lashed out and i'll try and control it from now on". Or something along those lines, i've not long woken up
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Re: Making up with a friend. (9th Aug 08 at 10:42am UTC)
Thanks Graham. I'm trying to figure out what to say. I been up all night thinking about it. It's eating me away. =/
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Re: Making up with a friend. (9th Aug 08 at 10:52am UTC)
I'd try not to worry about it too much. Like i said, if she's a real friend she'll understand that it was a temporary loss of temper, and not something major like a betrayal or owt You'll be fine mate, just explain and you'll both be fine
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Re: Making up with a friend. (10th Aug 08 at 1:05am UTC)
Females hold grudges for years though... My girlfriend is a perfect example of that. In year 7 someone told her she had breast implants, shes in year 11 now and still hates her for it. Could be a difficult one, though, as Graham said, if she's a true mate, she'll be cool with it. Friends never fall away forever.
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Re: Making up with a friend. (10th Aug 08 at 2:31am UTC)
She responded to me now. She said she'll wait until she feels I really mean it and wants to see my trying. Then she'll give thought to it.
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