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A Dilemma - Posted By XeroCint (kai) on 1st Jan 08 at 6:07pm
I have a dilemma .
There is this girl that I have been dating for a month. And I love her. I promised her I would want to be with her forever. That no one else in the world would come between us. That was 2 nights ago
Last night I went to this party. And met this girl. I couldn't stop staring at her. I couldn't stop talking to her
I feel horrible
I don't want to break my promise
I love Heather.. Don't I?
I don't want to leave her just because some other girl enters my life. One that I may never see again
And Heather is uber sensitive.. I don't know if she could handle it.. why would I leave her for some other girl. That's horrible. It's wrong.. and the same thing might happen with the next girl. Life sucks. And we all know it.


It's My Life <--> Bon Jovi

Re: A Dilemma - Posted By Michael (wrighty) on 1st Jan 08 at 8:27pm
Don't leave her... so long as you haven't done anything with this other girl, you have no reason to leave her! :]

Re: A Dilemma - Posted By XeroCint (kai) on 1st Jan 08 at 8:31pm
 
Don't leave her... so long as you haven't done anything with this other girl, you have no reason to leave her! :]

2 mins late... but we are talking it out {Smile}

Re: A Dilemma - Posted By Grave (Grave) on 1st Jan 08 at 8:50pm
What you do is take this spork, stab your left eye, and put on an eye patch. You are now a pirate.

Re: A Dilemma - Posted By Danny (schnooble) on 1st Jan 08 at 8:53pm
{Smile} good man, dont let anything come between you, theres nothing wrong with looking at another girl, but aslong as you love your girlfriend then you two will be fine {Smile}

Re: A Dilemma - Posted By Graham (amusedtodeath) on 1st Jan 08 at 9:32pm
It's probably just lust. It's oddly healthy, as it makes you think of what you already have, and thus appreciate it more {Smile}

Personally, saying that you want to be with someone forever after just one month is a tad premature, but if it works for you then good luck! {Smile}

Re: A Dilemma - Posted By XeroCint (kai) on 1st Jan 08 at 9:54pm
wow time flies when.. you're on the phone for two hours... we talked about stuff, and stuff and I think I really am in love with her more
like graham said it made me appreciate her more