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The "Chase" - Posted By Graham (amusedtodeath) on 16th Mar 08 at 10:50am
I was thinking about this at work the other night. As i work with a lot of people ranging from 17-25 there's a lot of...shall we say tension in the air as some people like other people. Generally i end up having to sort out their mess {Tongue Out}

I was thinking though - when it comes to someone wanting to go out with you, do you prefer the "chase" and working out if they do like you and reading the signals, or do you much prefer they just came out with "hey, i really fancy you"? Is it the same the other way - do you prefer to be subtle of just come out with it?

I'll be interested to see the replies to this {Smile}
Re: The "Chase" - Posted By Tim (grievous) on 16th Mar 08 at 12:36pm
I preffer both ways of figuring out if they like me.

Generally, I choke when i'm talking to beautiful girls, so theres hardly a conversation, but if there is one, then I can tell if she lies me, or not.
Re: The "Chase" - Posted By Graham (amusedtodeath) on 19th Mar 08 at 11:58am
Posted By Tim on 16th Mar 08 at 12:36pm
 
I preffer both ways of figuring out if they like me.

Generally, I choke when i'm talking to beautiful girls, so theres hardly a conversation.


I've learnt over time that i can easily get over that. I don't have a problem anymore chatting to females and many of my friends are female. I just find that having no agenda, making them laugh and not taking yourself too seriously works wonders.

What does everyone else do about people that you're attracted to, how do you go about getting to know them?
Re: The "Chase" - Posted By Tim (grievous) on 19th Mar 08 at 12:03pm
lol, the girls run away. {Tongue Out} So it's litteraly the chase. and ya, I chase them. why? 'cuz I got nuttin eles to do. {Cool}

There are some girl that are friends, but thoes ones I wouldn't date.
Re: The "Chase" - Posted By Marc (cr0w) on 19th Mar 08 at 9:03pm
Personally, I have no problem talking to girls. I'm a compulsive flirter; I'd say over half of my friends are girls, all of whom thought I liked them at one point because of how much I flirt. {Tongue Out}

However, if I do like a girl, I'll just come straight out and tell her; I don't hold on to rejection, so I can get over it pretty fast and just continue my flirting until I find someone else I like. {Wink}
Re: The "Chase" - Posted By tricky.cb (crazyblue) on 20th Mar 08 at 1:02am
I'd rather girls would come out and freakin' say it! It's such a puzzle, and its annoying as hell.

I've probably had the opportunity to date a few girls pass because I'd never known they had even liked me.

Edit: Didn't know this was about talking with girls also.

The only time I ever have trouble talking to a girl is when I like her, because I always end up thinking I'll say something to mess it up. Other than that I have no problems with talking to girls.